When signs mislead...

She kept waiting the whole day for his call but he didn't call her. She opened her MSN in order to wait for him to have chat at night as they got used to everyday. He signed in, she felt the butterflies, and they had a long chat which she wished they would never have. He was the happiest one ever, but she was dying inside. He told her that he finally talked to the girl he loves. She thought she was that one. His actions prove that he loves her, everybody saw them together said so. She kept telling herself there were "signs" that he loves me!! -Pause- signs?! What are these ****** signs? there is nothing proves that a guy loves a girl except when he goes to her and say I LOVE YOU, without  saying this, don't assume that there are signs and that he loves you. Simply, because when a guy likes a girl he will find his way to say it and to express his feelings; he won't wait till the magic of the signs work! -Play- while she was crying she called her best friend and told her what had happened. Her friend told her that she is stupid because he is doing this to see whether she will be jealous or not, and blindly she believed this. Day after day she was trying to impress him by her actions, her look, and her care. But he never thought of her as his beloved, for him she was the best friend ever. He talks everyday to her because he feels comfortable while talking to her, he looks in her eyes to understand her because he knows her well more than anyone does. Maybe she doesn't really love him but this stupid idea of signs makes her thinking that he loves her and she loves him back. -Stop- when anyone of us loves somebody he takes any nice action of him as a "sign" of love. This is stupidity, because we always love to hear what please us even if it is not true, we believe it and deceive ourselves. You are the one who hurt yourself when you believe in something that has never existed. I am not arguing that only girls think about this but guys also do ****** think. When a girl goes and says 'hi' this means that she likes this guy and you keep hearing this 'aywaa b2aaaaaaaa', 'yesahelo' and all this is illusion. I want to know why??! The whole matter is much easier than this. You have to be direct, if you love someone say it, if you care show. Its better to express than to expect. :)